Assalamu’alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim
1. Introduction
In biology, our health depends on a condition called Homeostasis—the body’s ability to maintain chemical balance amid environmental changes. At the cellular level, if our cells are too active (the far right extreme), they can become cancerous. If cells are too sluggish (the far left extreme), body tissues will die. The same applies to our brain structure; the amygdala regulates emotion (the gas), while the prefrontal cortex regulates logic (the brakes). This microscopic balance is what keeps us sane. Scientifically, people who live moderately—not overly stressed chasing the world yet not neglecting responsibility—have stable cortisol levels, making their souls more resilient in facing life’s storms.
Evidence from the Qur’an and Hadith
Allah SWT created everything within us in precise measure, and the Messenger reminded us not to transgress limits:
إِنَّا كُلَّ شَيْءٍ خَلَقْنَاهُ بِقَدَرٍ
"Indeed, We created everything according to a measure (precise proportion)." (QS. Al-Qamar : 49)
أَحِبَّ حَبِيبَكَ هَوْنًا مَا، عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ بَغِيضَكَ يَوْمًا مَا
"Love the one you love in moderation, for one day he may become someone you dislike (and vice versa)." (HR. Tirmidzi)
2. Lessons and Messages
Moderation within oneself is the ability to control the ego. Do not let your obedience make you arrogant and feel purer than others, yet do not let your mistakes make you despair of Allah’s mercy. Be a person who stands in the middle: possessing self-respect yet remaining humble, having ambition yet knowing your limits. True human strength lies not in the ability to dominate others, but in the ability to balance the turmoil within your own chest.There was a young man so harsh in worship that he neglected his health and family. He felt that was the path to God. One day, he saw a father doing hard labor under the scorching sun to feed his child, yet the father still took time to smile and greet his neighbors gently. The young man realized: that father was performing a worship far more “moderate” yet greatly beloved by God, because he balanced the rights of Allah (prayer) and the rights of others (earning a living & showing affection). The young man wept, realizing that extreme piety had actually distanced him from the essence of humanity taught by the Prophet.Balance within oneself is like salt in cooking. If too little, the dish becomes bland and lifeless. If too much, the dish becomes bitter and ruins the taste. Yet when salt is used in a “moderate” measure, it does not highlight itself; instead, it brings out the best flavor from all the other ingredients. Be the “salt” for yourself: right in portion, beautiful in result.There was a person so eager to be “moderate” in everything that he decided to pray facing sideways. When reprimanded, he replied, “If facing West is the right extreme, and East is the left extreme, then I’ll take the middle path and face North!” Of course, the other worshippers laughed. The lesson: Moderation follows the compass of Sharia, not just taking the middle according to your own feelings. Don’t be so enthusiastic about being moderate that you end up creating a new “school of thought” that makes the angels shake their heads!
3. Conclusion
Dear brothers and sisters, moderation is God’s basic design for every cell in our bodies. Thus, there is no reason for us to live in extremes. Let us guard this microscopic balance by being grateful for blessings without excess, and by facing trials without lamentation. The middle path is the path of salvation, in this world and in the Hereafter."O Allah, keep our hearts firm upon Your straight religion, and make us a moderate nation—one that does not transgress limits nor neglect obligations."Amin ya Rabbal ‘Alamin
والله أعلم بالصواب
الحمد لله رب العالمين
Wassalamu’alaikum Warahmaullahi Wabarakatuh.
ِAbu Sultan Al-Qadrie